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Every now and again you will have to make a decision that you hope will benefit you, maybe the people around you but mainly you in whatever sense whether it be changing job to breaking up with someone.
These changes will in some way build your character, give ou and experience you can learn from if it was the right thing to do then progression is made if it was the wrong thing to Dothan you learn from it you remember the situation you maybe think twice if you are put in it again as long as you take those chances or changes in life that is what is important and how you can grow..
These choices can sometimes be very difficult if it relationships that are separated an it was the wrong choice your screaming silently why please can this go back to the way it is but when you look at what you have learned about yourself during this period how much stronger you have become or even how much stronger your relationship is with the other person or if not in contact anymore how you know you would never make that mistake again and just hope that maybe just maybe your future paths cross somehow again..
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If its leaving a job dependent on the job say if you love the job you become comfortable you understand it you love your work colleagues but you’re not pushing yourself anymore and your just surviving not living! then the choice and the action in of that choice will be even harder as your be facing the unknown and wig unknown comes doubt nerves emotions which can overwhelm and take over what you know maybe 20% could push you fwd and help out and be challenging new exciting inspiring different.
When people say they have no regrets the reason is that they have managed to use the experiences that they may have regretted to benefit them in some way which is why it isn't regret. And when you can do that you can share those experiences that you hope will allow others to not make a swell.
Do summing about how you feel even I it is just once a month doesn't have to be anything huge like the 2 above but even if it takes allot of effort for you to usually tell someone how much the mean to you in saying.. I Love You.. Your putting yourself out there your trying your making that effort that change to what you may not do.. Your learning growing.. Taking a Risk.. Consequences are there to be dealt with but for the consequence to be there the action needs to be taken place first.
Only You
Only you can put these people can give you advice and give you ideas, give their opinion show you what options you have what outcomes could happen but it's You that will take that final step.. Deep breath and Jump into the unknown.
You can say yeah, yeah you only live once and so forth but the only way that works is by believing it! Thinking actually yes I do. And I want to tell my grand kids all those mad things and ideas and decisions I made I wan’na write it all down and make a giant novel so people can laugh at what happened to me with me not at me! yeah so sometimes I fucked up but I stayed true to myself I tried and no one can tell me any different at least I made an effort and put myself out there.
Change is inevitable you can't beat them join them you don't like it just means it takes you a little while to get then others to get used to it and new things but in the end it'll be ok.
Making that change scary but defining
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